It's morning and there is a lot to do. Rhonda's painted her toenails already and after some breakfast is headed out to get some things for today.
There is a lot to do and we girls do need time to get ready. Clouds are moving in and rain is on the way. That is a good thing in many ways, not the least of which is the cover it will provide as Rhonda debuts in public during the day. Scary and exciting all at the same time!
And no, our girl's not ready for Halloween yet. I can see you rolling your eyes... There is a lot going on this Halloween for Rhonda. First a local get together during the day with the choice of coming drab (and changing there) or dressed. So what's the prob you say???
Well, it's during the day, daylight and all that. But it IS Halloween and plenty of folks will be in costume. Yep. There is that, and there's supposed to be rain which will provide more cover. However, I do have a meeting right before and dressing will not be appropriate. What to do??? I think the solution is to do a combo, panties and pantyhose, and maybe a cami under the guy clothes for the meeting, then take a minute to throw on a bra before the get together and finishing changing there. That should work...
Now, the age old dilemma, What To Wear? Not a real problem when Rhonda first started dressing, there was just one outfit. Now, well, there are many choices. And since Rhonda's planning an outing after dark also she'll need 2 outfits...
Yes, you did read that right, Rhonda's Domestic Goddessing today. Her first whole day just to herself in a long time and she's Domestic Goddessing....trash out to the curb, sorting the recyclables, dishes, laundry, vacuuming and baking bread. Sourdough bread from my own starter if you must know.
There is something very comforting about hanging out in the workout clothes, puttering around doing the chores, minimal make up, (some mascara and lipstick) and not worrying about anything. It's a bit nipplish out today, fall has definitely arrived in Rhonda's corner of the world. It's time to slow down and ease into winter.
Rhonda's on the road again tomorrow for a couple meetings, but things are slowing down which does mean more girl time, and that's a good thing. Time to go through my clothes, not to purge!!! No worries there! There are some things I don't wear anymore, and some things that looked good in the store, but, well, you know.... ;-) So, there will be some weeding out and a donation to a local thrift store.
A couple posts here and there followed by 4 months of radio silence, and suddenly ya can't shut the girl up!!! Isn't that always the way? Feast or famine...
As I mentioned a couple posts ago, Rhonda's in the Bay Area this week. There's not much happening, so it's a good time for our girl to relax and get some rest. And time to blog whatever random thought happens to skitter across her single cell at the moment...
but it is a pretty good article. At least there is conversation about things that haven't been seriously discussed before. I'm looking forward to the series. Even though the series is about a pre-op trans woman, I think it will deal with some issues we crossdressers deal with.
No, Rhonda still hasn't made it to Carla's for a makeup lesson yet. Maybe tomorrow or Saturday...
Surely you know. Nope. And stop calling me Shirley! We are all trying to figure it out. And, here's the gig, nobody knows how you will feel or experience anything. Nope. Not nobody, not nohow. Period, end of discussion.
Kindly unwad your panties for just a sec, and consider this. The only experiences you have, the only feelings and emotions you have are yours alone and do not reflect those of any other person, entity, or the dog walking down the street. So, no one else can tell you how you are going to feel about anything. The only thing they can do is share how they fell about any person, place, thing or experience.
Recognize that my kink is not your kink, and that is a good thing. We may, and quite probably do, have many things in common and get on with life. Neither of us is "right" or "wrong" we're just folks trying to live this life and have our experiences.
Is Rhonda suggesting that we cannot learn from each other??? Absolutely not. We each have a unique perspective that helps guide us and is valuable to each other. We are each an invaluable resource and support for each other. Hey, none of us has to do this alone.
Let me know if you figure it all out. Meanwhile, Rhonda's going to take each day as it comes and enjoy the ride!!!
Rhonda's got a new dress!!! Rhonda's got a new dress!!! Rhonda's got a new dress!!!
I did it! Yes I did! Rhonda went to Carla's Social Club on Saturday and checked it out. Very warm and inviting with very nice things. There were a couple girls hanging out in the club and an associate in the Boutique. Rhonda felt very accepted and comfortable. And bought a new dress!!!!! I'll post some pics later, it is quite cute!!! They even have a good selection of gently used clothing. If Rhonda lived closer, she would be a regular!!!
So, really inspired to go back for a makeup lesson. It's looking like that is going to be a reality this week!!! I will keep you all informed...
Yes I did bring some cute panties. You really didn't think a girl would go to try on clothes without decent underwear on did you???
...with some time to kill, wearing the pink cotton everyday Sears and Fastbuck panties under my manly man clothes making a blog post. Sun's out and it's a gorgeous fall day in Rhonda's corner of the cosmos.
Rhonda's excited today. She's headed to the Bay Area tomorrow, we talked about that, and it is looking good for a visit to Carla's in San Jose, Carla's Social Club , tomorrow!!! Girlfriend, I WILL fill you in on the details! Rhonda's hoping to get time during the week to get a makeup lesson there.
What else? Well, Rhonda's close to scheduling a Skype session later this month with The Devine Ms Lilith!!! Yay!!! Ms Lilith's link is posted on the right. And I did mention Halloween as a girl's weekend!!! Some really good girl time after a long dry spell. Things do have a way of working out.
...in the mini storage. The bras and boobs, skirts and blouses; the hose, garter belts and dresses; the make-up and wigs. Waiting. Waiting through the long, hot summer. Waiting for fall. waiting for Rhonda to make an appearance again.
Soon my pretties, soon. Soon we'll feel the constriction of the bra, the weight of breasts, the slick of lipstick and the silky slide of pantyhose. Soon....
...is coming!!! A good chance to get girly!!! Looks like Rhonda's going to have some alone time this Halloween to dress up and go for a late drive around the county. Halloween being on Friday this year, the parties extend through Saturday and folks expect everyone to be in costume.
Rhonda had a chance to dress up and go to a dear friend's house last year, followed by a drive around. She had the most delicious time!!!
Long summer and no real chances to dress. Busy every day in September getting the mother-in-law's house ready to sell. On the opposite side of the country this passed week to visit family. Back home tomorrow. Next week in the Bay Area to stay with my friend while his wife is out of town. Hope to make it into San Jose to visit a CD boutique and do some shopping a couple of days.
Very grateful for some alone time at the hotel so I can make a blog post to let you all know I'm still alive!!! As the days get cooler it gets time to break out the pantyhose, not to mention that winter clothing is great at concealing camis and, when Rhonda's feeling particularly daring, bras.
Rhonda's going to have to get used to heels again, happens every year, and is working on getting some instruction. I'll let you know how that progresses.
...has Rhonda been the last two months? Well, it has been a busy time for our girl. There really wasn't much going on the last half of March, I know, I know, I said it's been a busy time and then said well it really wasn't all that busy. Hey, us girls do have a right to change our mind! A anyway, where was I? Oh yeah, now I remember, April was really pretty busy for dear Rhonda. It just seemed that with the local organizations Rhonda's involved with and a couple of local political races the entire month of April was just meetings, meetings, meetings!
And I to make matters worse, there just wasn't any out of town time for Rhonda to just get girly....*Big sigh* oh well, what's a girl to do? Rhonda was able to sneak in a couple of at home dress-up days, yay, and did get a chance to wear some nice panties and pantyhose to a couple of the meetings. I mean, after all, the girl can't just go to an important meeting without her pantyhose now can she?
Rhonda's dear mother-in-law passed away suddenly about a week and half ago. So, there's been a lot of things to take care of which means a lot of people in and out of the house so Rhonda has really had no chance to dress up the last couple weeks. The memorial service is going to be at the end of next week so Rhonda's been busy mowing the lawn, doing the weed eating and other things to get the house in shape since there will be relatives visiting from out of town.
We did go do some camping, had a birthday party to attend, and had some company prior to that, so, today is the first day Ron this had really any alone time to catch up with this blog. I realize that this is a little disjointed, but I do have a lot that I want to put in today, and I do thank you all who've been checking in faithfully and not finding any new news.
Yes, silly, Rhonda is wearing some oh too cute pink panties and a sports bra today. A girl has to take advantage of her alone time when she can. Rhonda will be going to her storage unit later today to pick up some things so she can wear a real bra and some lipstick tomorrow. Speaking of bras, a boutique lingerie store not too far away from where Rhonda lives had a bra donation of gently used bras to benefit a battered women's shelter. How could a girl not participate in that? Especially since Rhonda has too many bras that don't fit. So, I was able to donate some bras that I don't use, and get scheduled for a bra fitting! How cool is that?
Rhonda did receive a request from a dear friend, Dr. Grace Stanton, to
post Dr. Graces website on Rhonda's blog. I am happy to do that for Dr.
Grace, so please find those links on the blog!
Dr. Grace's info is: Dr. Grace L. Stanton, a kinky phone sex counselor/therapist for the past 20 years.
Rhonda's restless these first days. Had to cancel a personal session with Goddess and an on line session due to an emergency with the M-I-L. She's doing much better, she's 89 so some health issues are going to manifest I guess....
I am very disappointed about the cancellations as I have very few opportunities to dress for someone else, and cherish those times. *Big sigh* Oh well, just gonna put on my big girl panties and deal with it!!!
cotton panties, but the cotton's softer than that in men's underwear, and they feel sooooooooooooooo good as I step into them and slide them up my thighs, settle them on and tuck in. The bra fabric is satiny smooth (it's a Maidenform Sweet Nothings bra I found at Ross. SCORE!!!!), the band feels good as it tightens around my chest when I fasten the hooks, mmmmmmm, mmmmmmmmm, mmmmmmmmmmm. Settle in the boobies, it's good to feel the weight and heft of breasts again. A little rose pink lipstick and Rhonda's ready for another day!!! Two days in a row now. Yep. Lucky me!!! The DW has a workshop after work today so Rhonda can hang until later this afternoon.
I even had bra marks on my chest yesterday afternoon, and will have them again today!!! It is the little things, things that GGs go through/experience every day that I get to experience periodically help make the fem experience (How many times can Rhonda use the word 'experience' in a single sentence???) real for me.
Hey, have y'all seen this from Huffington Post yet?
11 'Girly' Things Men Wish They Could Do Without Judgment
I know, I know, I know, I've been promising pics wearing those tres sexay gold sandals, but, I've got some weirdness going on with my big toe that has put heels totally out of the picture. (ar, ar, ar) I thought it was gout, sure felt like it, but the Doc doesn't think so. Anyway, the swelling has gone down so I may just suck it up for a few pics. Only because Rhonda loves you and wants you to be happy...
OK enough for now, time to do some house work and de-cluttering.
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