Sunday, September 15, 2013

Friday the Thirteenth Re-Blog

Re-blogged with the kind permission of the wonderful Maggie McNeill. 

We are here on this planet to be of service, whatever that may be. No work is more important than any other work. All work and all workers deserve to be treated with honor, dignity and respect.


Friday the Thirteenth Again

In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.  -  Martin Luther King, Jr.
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Today is the first Friday the 13th in fourteen months, and since I’ve picked up quite a few readers since July of 2012 a number of you are probably wondering what that has to do with anything.  Well, it’s just this:  from soon after the beginning of this blog, I’ve asked those of you who aren’t sex workers yourselves to speak up for our rights on this day.  The gay rights movement didn’t really take off until the friends and families of gay people got involved, and it’s the same for us; since only about 1% of Western women ever formally work as whores, we’re going to need a lot of help to make our voices heard.  We need all the sex workers (such as strippers, dominatrices and porn actresses) whose fields aren’t currently criminalized, and the sugar babies and other women who have informally or indirectly taken money for sex at least once (which might be as high as 10% of all women).  We need all of the men who hire us at least occasionally, which comes to about 20% of the adult male population.  We need all of the women who recognize that cops can’t tell the difference between professionals and amateurs, and that laws which can be used to arrest us will also work to arrest you.  We need all of those who love porn, polyamory, BDSM or kink, because even though policing of sex usually starts with harlots, it never stops with us.  We need all of the public health and human rights experts who understand the necessity of decriminalization in light of their respective fields, all of the libertarians who recognize that governmental prohibition of consensual behavior is both indefensible and dangerous to individual liberty, and all of the feminists who recognize that a woman’s right to control her own body and make her own sexual and economic choices is the primary feminist issue.  And we need all of the decent human beings who don’t fall into any of those categories, but are simply disgusted by the idea of armed thugs arresting, humiliating and ruining people for the “crime” of consensual sex.
I understand that many of you, especially the men, are not in a position of being able to speak out publicly without suffering some sort of censure or risking the hostility of wives, girlfriends and female co-workers.  But fortunately, we live in an age where it’s easy to speak anonymously:
…talk about the issue with someone who will listen, make a post on a discussion board, comment on a news story which spreads disinformation, or even just post a link to this column.  If you aren’t confident in your ability to debate, even a simple phrase like “I think adult women should have the right to decide why and with whom they want to have sex” or “everyone has the right to equal protection under the law” might have a tiny but important impact on those who overhear.
If you’re in a position to speak or write but you’re at a loss for strategy, my last Friday the 13th column had some useful suggestions that might inspire you.  And if you have a blog of your own, I’m asking you pretty-please-with-sugar-on-top to try; even just a short post would help to amplify the message.  Last year, Dr. Sarah and Amazing Susan heeded the call, and this year I’m hoping for a veritable crowd; whenever one of y’all posts, be sure to email me or announce it in a comment so I can share the link on Twitter.  And don’t worry if you can’t get the post done until later today: every single post y’all make today will be announced and linked in my next Friday the 13th column, only three months down the road on December 13th.  And yes, reblogs of this column are acceptable, and will get your name on the honor roll come December.  It’s time we let the prohibitionists know that if they want to pick on sex workers, we have a whole lot of brothers and sisters they’re going to have to face as well.

Wednesday, September 11, 2013


...because I have to take off my oh so cute NEW royal blue bra to go to town. I know, I know, GGs can't wait to get home to take theirs off; but they get to wear bras everyday and I don't. Hmmph.

Annnnnnnnnnnndh, here I flounced around alllllllllllllllll morning in just bra and panties, sure that if I did the power company would show up, but noooooooooooooo...

I did get to wear bra and panties today tho, so it's not a total loss. Oh, you noticed the part about a new bra did you? It's a front hook (yay) royal blue with flowers and lace decorations. It's very comfortable and too cute!!! And yes, I'll post some pics when I can. I ordered it and two others online from Size 44D silly, Rhonda's a big girl and Full Beauty caters to larger sizes.

There, I feel much better, thanks for listening.


p.s. Phone Mistress suggests that I have turned into a bra whore...

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Rhonda, oh Rhonda dear...

...what ever are you doing?
I'm cleaning the shower as you directed mistress
I can see that. What is that you are wearing?
Only my bra and panties as you directed Mistress.
I can see you're wearing a bra and panties Rhonda, however you are wearing that granny bra that's too big for you and those pink cotton panties with the rip in the leg. I've told you and told you to get rid of those things.  Where is the bra I laid out for you?
That bras to tight Mistress and the underwires dig into me.
It's supposed to be that way, Rhonda, that's to remind you that you're a girl while serving me.
Yes Mistress, but I just wanted to be comfortable while I was cleaning up for you.
Oh, you want to be comfortable huh? Turn around.
But Mistress....
I said,  turn around.
Yes Mistress.
How about if I pulled the back of these panties up the crack of your ass? (Yank)
There, that looks like you're wearing a thong. How's that feel? Comfortable now? Here, get in that shower. There, now you're all wet with your panties bunched up the crack of your ass.  Are you comfortable now?
No mistress. Please mistress, please.....
Please what? Bend over. I said bend over, Rhonda, I'm not telling you again.
Yes mistress. Like this?
Yest Rhonda, that's a good girl.  Now brace your hands against the shower wall. Just like that, that's my good girl.
Are you going to paddle me Mistress? You know how much the paddle hurts when I'm wet from the shower.
Don't worry about what I'm going to do Rhonda,  you'll find out soon enough....

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Rhonda's back... the Bay Area to visit my good and dear friend. He is making progress slowly and is feeling down. Surgery does kick ones ass big time and he is unable to do the things he used to do for himself. I can relate!!!!!

Do cherish those who are close to you. I know that every time someone has an experience like this there blogs, Facecrack, texts etc. get flooded with these admonition a of the preciousness of life here on the planet in this plane, but, hey, learn from our experience, it'll make yours easier!
All is not dark and dreary however. In addition to getting to spend time with my buddy, there's SHOPPING!!!!!! Major League, Big Time pro shopping here!!!!! Outlet stores, malls, oh my...

Sorry, kinda drifted off there for a bit. Where was I ? Oh yeah, shopping. Lane Bryant for sure (Rhonda's a big girl), shoes, and, who knows????

Be well and be good to yourself.