Surely you know. Nope. And stop calling me Shirley! We are all trying to figure it out. And, here's the gig, nobody knows how you will feel or experience anything. Nope. Not nobody, not nohow. Period, end of discussion.
Kindly unwad your panties for just a sec, and consider this. The only experiences you have, the only feelings and emotions you have are yours alone and do not reflect those of any other person, entity, or the dog walking down the street. So, no one else can tell you how you are going to feel about anything. The only thing they can do is share how they fell about any person, place, thing or experience.
Recognize that my kink is not your kink, and that is a good thing. We may, and quite probably do, have many things in common and get on with life. Neither of us is "right" or "wrong" we're just folks trying to live this life and have our experiences.
Is Rhonda suggesting that we cannot learn from each other??? Absolutely not. We each have a unique perspective that helps guide us and is valuable to each other. We are each an invaluable resource and support for each other. Hey, none of us has to do this alone.
Let me know if you figure it all out. Meanwhile, Rhonda's going to take each day as it comes and enjoy the ride!!!
Hugs and kisses