Friday, October 31, 2014

Happy Halloween!!!

It's morning and there is a lot to do. Rhonda's painted her toenails already and after some breakfast is headed out to get some things for today.

There is a lot to do and we girls do need time to get ready. Clouds are moving in and rain is on the way. That is a good thing in many ways, not the least of which is the cover it will provide as Rhonda debuts in public during the day. Scary and exciting all at the same time!

Wish me luck!!!

Hugs and kisses


Wednesday, October 29, 2014

What To Wear???

And no, our girl's not ready for Halloween yet. I can see you rolling your eyes... There is a lot going on this Halloween for Rhonda. First a local get together during the day with the choice of coming drab (and changing there) or dressed. So what's the prob you say???

Well, it's during the day, daylight and all that. But it IS Halloween and plenty of folks will be in costume. Yep. There is that, and there's supposed to be rain which will provide more cover. However, I do have a meeting right before and dressing will not be appropriate. What to do??? I think the solution is to do a combo, panties and pantyhose, and maybe a cami under the guy clothes for the meeting, then take a minute to throw on a bra before the get together and finishing changing there. That should work...

Now, the age old dilemma, What To Wear? Not a real problem when Rhonda first started dressing, there was just one outfit. Now, well, there are many choices. And since Rhonda's planning an outing after dark also she'll need 2 outfits...

Can she pull it together in time???

Stay tuned....


Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Domestic Goddess

Yes, you did read that right, Rhonda's Domestic Goddessing today. Her first whole day just to herself in a long time and she's Domestic Goddessing....trash out to the curb, sorting the recyclables, dishes, laundry, vacuuming and baking bread. Sourdough bread from my own starter if you must know.

There is something very comforting about hanging out in the workout clothes, puttering around doing the chores, minimal make up, (some mascara and lipstick) and not worrying about anything.  It's a bit nipplish out today, fall has definitely arrived in Rhonda's corner of the world. It's time to slow down and ease into winter.

Rhonda's on the road again tomorrow for a couple meetings, but things are slowing down which does mean more girl time, and that's a good thing.  Time to go through my clothes, not to purge!!! No worries there! There are some things I don't wear anymore, and some things that looked good in the store, but, well, you know.... ;-) So, there will be some weeding out and a donation to a local thrift store.

Here's to lazy days!!! Hope all is well with you.

Hugs and kisses


Thursday, October 16, 2014

Rhonda, WTF???

A couple posts here and there followed by 4 months of radio silence, and suddenly ya can't shut the girl up!!! Isn't that always the way? Feast or famine...

As I mentioned a couple posts ago, Rhonda's in the Bay Area this week. There's not much happening, so it's a good time for our girl to relax and get some rest. And time to blog whatever random thought happens to skitter across her single cell at the moment...

I don't know if you've seen this yet,

but it is a pretty good article. At least there is conversation about things that haven't been seriously discussed before. I'm looking forward to the series. Even though the series is about a pre-op trans woman, I think it will deal with some issues we crossdressers deal with.

No, Rhonda still hasn't made it to Carla's for a makeup lesson yet. Maybe tomorrow or Saturday...

Hugs and kisses


Wednesday, October 15, 2014

What's it all about, Alfie?

Surely you know. Nope. And stop calling me Shirley! We are all trying to figure it out. And, here's the gig,  nobody knows how you will feel or experience anything. Nope. Not nobody, not nohow. Period, end of discussion.

Kindly unwad your panties for just a sec, and consider this. The only experiences you have, the only feelings and emotions you have are yours alone and do not reflect those of any other person, entity, or the dog walking down the street. So, no one else can tell you how you are going to feel about anything. The only thing they can do is share how they fell about any person, place, thing or experience.

Recognize that my kink is not your kink, and  that is a good thing. We may, and quite probably do, have many things in common and get on with life. Neither of us is "right" or "wrong" we're just folks trying to live this life and have our experiences.

Is Rhonda suggesting that we cannot learn from each other??? Absolutely not. We each have a unique perspective that helps guide us and is valuable to each other. We are each an invaluable resource and support for each other. Hey, none of us has to do this alone.

Let me know if you figure it all out. Meanwhile, Rhonda's going to take each day as it comes and enjoy the ride!!!

Hugs and kisses


Monday, October 13, 2014

Rhonda's got a new dress!!!

Rhonda's got a new dress!!! Rhonda's got a new dress!!! Rhonda's got a new dress!!!

I did it! Yes I did! Rhonda went to Carla's Social Club on Saturday and checked it out. Very warm and inviting with very nice things. There were a couple girls hanging out in the club and an associate in the Boutique. Rhonda felt very accepted and comfortable. And bought a new dress!!!!! I'll post some pics later, it is quite cute!!! They even have a good selection of gently used clothing. If Rhonda lived closer, she would be a regular!!!

So, really inspired to go back for a makeup lesson. It's looking like that is going to be a reality this week!!! I will keep you all informed...

Yes I did bring some cute panties. You really didn't think a girl would go to try on clothes without decent underwear on did you???

Hugs and kisses

Sent from my iPad

Friday, October 10, 2014


At the coffee shop...

...with some time to kill, wearing the pink cotton everyday Sears and Fastbuck panties under my manly man clothes making a blog post. Sun's out and it's a gorgeous fall day in Rhonda's corner of the cosmos.

Rhonda's excited today. She's headed to the Bay Area tomorrow, we talked about that, and it is looking good for a visit to Carla's in San Jose, Carla's Social Club , tomorrow!!! Girlfriend, I WILL fill you in on the details! Rhonda's hoping to get time during the week to get a makeup lesson there.

What else? Well, Rhonda's close to scheduling a Skype session later this month with The Devine Ms Lilith!!! Yay!!! Ms Lilith's link is posted on the right. And I did mention Halloween as a girl's weekend!!! Some really good girl time after a long dry spell. Things do have a way of working out.

That's all for now.

Hugs and kisses


Tuesday, October 7, 2014

They Wait Patiently... the mini storage. The bras and boobs, skirts and blouses; the hose, garter belts and dresses; the make-up and wigs. Waiting. Waiting through the long, hot summer. Waiting for fall. waiting for Rhonda to make an appearance again.

Soon my pretties, soon. Soon we'll feel the constriction of the bra, the weight of breasts, the slick of lipstick and the silky slide of pantyhose. Soon....

They wait patiently...

Monday, October 6, 2014

Halloween... coming!!! A good chance to get girly!!! Looks like Rhonda's going to have some alone time this Halloween to dress up and go for a late drive around the county. Halloween being on Friday this year, the parties extend through Saturday and folks expect everyone to be in costume.
Rhonda had a chance to dress up and go to a dear friend's house last year, followed by a drive around. She had the most delicious time!!!

Long summer and no real chances to dress. Busy every day in September getting the mother-in-law's house ready to sell. On the opposite side of the country this passed week to visit family. Back home tomorrow.  Next week in the Bay Area to stay with my friend while his wife is out of town. Hope to make it into San Jose to visit a CD boutique and do some shopping a couple of days.

Very grateful for some alone time at the hotel so I can make a blog post to let you all know I'm still alive!!! As the days get cooler it gets time to break out the pantyhose, not to mention that winter clothing is great at concealing camis and, when Rhonda's feeling particularly daring, bras.

Rhonda's going to have to get used to heels again, happens every year, and is working on getting some instruction. I'll let you know how that progresses.

Hugs and Kisses